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« on: January 02, 2007, 05:10:09 PM » |
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Do you need advice on your relationship? Ask Pogi, for help and guidance.
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« Reply #1 on: January 02, 2007, 05:46:19 PM » |
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cooool..........
so you're a love guru too?
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« Reply #2 on: January 02, 2007, 05:48:53 PM » |
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cooool..........
so you're a love guru too?
I knew you'll be the first to reply here.. Im a love specialist, not professional but a whole lot of experience at my side of relationships. Maybe you can take over this topic or boards if they nominate you as moderator here. 
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« Reply #3 on: January 02, 2007, 06:16:43 PM » |
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no.. no.. i'd love to hear from people too.. helping you out in some ways i could would be better... NAH! i dont wanna be a moderator, my hands are full already with my work.. way to go Pogi!
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« Reply #4 on: January 13, 2007, 07:19:39 AM » |
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hi pogi... try ko nga. hee.hee. one yr kmi ng ex bf ko.i broke up wth him kasi unfaithful xa,secretive masyado and maraming bad things xa ginawa sakin na sobrang naka hurt tlga sakn.then we gave our rltnshp a 2ndchance,pero wala ring nangyari.isa pang issue samin is our religion.ayaw nya umalis sa religion nya and ayoko rin pa-convert sa rligion nya.sa religion nya kasi hindi pwede ikasal if hindi kachurch nila.familiar e2ng religion na 2.he emails me always, sabi nya babalikan daw nya ko and he still loves me.
as a guy also,dya think he's tellng d truth na he still loves me?eh never ya na proove na sincere xa sakin bcause of his religion DAW kaya he hides so many things from me pero i doubt.2) my guys ba na sagadsararan manloko ng girls na tlagang pilit ka paniniwalain na love ka nila pero the truth is hindi naman talaga. kasi wala na kami so bakit kailangan pa nyang sabihin na mahal nya ko.thanks
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« Reply #5 on: January 13, 2007, 07:23:50 AM » |
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hi pogi... try ko nga. hee.hee. one yr kmi ng ex bf ko.i broke up wth him kasi unfaithful xa,secretive masyado and maraming bad things xa ginawa sakin na sobrang naka hurt tlga sakn.then we gave our rltnshp a 2ndchance,pero wala ring nangyari.isa pang issue samin is our religion.ayaw nya umalis sa religion nya and ayoko rin pa-convert sa rligion nya.sa religion nya kasi hindi pwede ikasal if hindi kachurch nila.familiar e2ng religion na 2.he emails me always, sabi nya babalikan daw nya ko and he still loves me.
as a guy also,dya think he's tellng d truth na he still loves me?eh never ya na proove na sincere xa sakin bcause of his religion DAW kaya he hides so many things from me pero i doubt.2) my guys ba na sagadsararan manloko ng girls na tlagang pilit ka paniniwalain na love ka nila pero the truth is hindi naman talaga. kasi wala na kami so bakit kailangan pa nyang sabihin na mahal nya ko.thanks
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« Reply #6 on: January 27, 2007, 02:19:45 PM » |
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hmm... have to try these thread... well im having a problem with my partner.. i dont know how can i confront him about his not so realistic plans for us.... ya.. he's 5 years older than me and really wants to get married before he'l be 30.. hell! thats two years from now.. and i just graduated.. i need two years working exp. before my board exam.. after i have to pursue my studies in UK and get my license there.. only.. i dont know how will i tell him.. coz whenever ill open this matter.. he keeps on blocking me and keep on explaining that i could be a successful architect plus the marriage.. argh.. but how come? i need more time but it seems he's in a hurry of getting married...
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« Reply #7 on: January 27, 2007, 02:33:01 PM » |
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hmm... have to try these thread... well im having a problem with my partner.. i dont know how can i confront him about his not so realistic plans for us.... ya.. he's 5 years older than me and really wants to get married before he'l be 30.. hell! thats two years from now.. and i just graduated.. i need two years working exp. before my board exam.. after i have to pursue my studies in UK and get my license there.. only.. i dont know how will i tell him.. coz whenever ill open this matter.. he keeps on blocking me and keep on explaining that i could be a successful architect plus the marriage.. argh.. but how come? i need more time but it seems he's in a hurry of getting married...
When you say not so realistic plans for you two..is it because (you) cant let it happen this fast and marriage shouldnt be the #1 goal right now..? I have some questions... How long did you know him.? How long you been in relationship with him.? Do you love him...? Something to add with older people, time is more precious so commiting to marriage is a way to keep a stronger bond. He is aware of your studies abroad so he is scared of leaving him behind so marriage is a way to keep a stronger commitment from you to him. Choices choices...what is more important and what would make you happy now and in the long run..
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« Reply #8 on: January 27, 2007, 03:48:00 PM » |
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When you say not so realistic plans for you two..is it because (you) cant let it happen this fast and marriage shouldnt be the #1 goal right now..?
I have some questions... How long did you know him.? How long you been in relationship with him.? Do you love him...?
Something to add with older people, time is more precious so commiting to marriage is a way to keep a stronger bond.
He is aware of your studies abroad so he is scared of leaving him behind so marriage is a way to keep a stronger commitment from you to him.
Choices choices...what is more important and what would make you happy now and in the long run..
hmm... yup. he's plans is to have everything stable within two years.. which includes nice house, savings, for the wedding, help his mom, etc... all of this in two years. thinking the savings thing haven't started yet...... arrrr... he is still having a hard time on managing his money.. its 3 years and 9 months... yes i love him.. i even chose to stay and finish my studies here because of him.. but what with the age.. isnt better if ul get married wherein you know ur really ready... wherein you know both of you will be ready to really have a fam... i want to get married but not soon...
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« Reply #9 on: January 27, 2007, 09:27:29 PM » |
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you tell him that. ask him to sit and talk. tell him it's not that you dont wanna marry him but you just wanna ready yourself so when the time would come that you'll say your vows you're really opt to be a family person. ask yourself, how do you see yourself if you're married to him? do you really want to sleep and wake up each day with him? (if the answer is no, to hell with the 3 years, the relationship ain't going nowhere. you'll just end up in a broken relationship so why prolong the agony?)
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« Reply #10 on: January 27, 2007, 09:30:16 PM » |
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No I believe in hope for this relationship...its the weekend ill better elaborate this after the weekend.
Patience is needed in this relationship.
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« Reply #11 on: January 30, 2007, 01:57:39 AM » |
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they'll be no hope if there's no respect.
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your partner needs to be aware that you also have your own identity, sweety...
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« Reply #12 on: January 30, 2007, 07:28:09 AM » |
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hmm... yup. he's plans is to have everything stable within two years.. which includes nice house, savings, for the wedding, help his mom, etc... all of this in two years. thinking the savings thing haven't started yet...... arrrr... he is still having a hard time on managing his money..
its 3 years and 9 months... yes i love him.. i even chose to stay and finish my studies here because of him.. but what with the age.. isnt better if ul get married wherein you know ur really ready... wherein you know both of you will be ready to really have a fam... i want to get married but not soon...
What I want to focus is the best of you. I hear to many who rush in marriage and I want the attention to be on your career, stability(security), and to finish your education. I heard you already wear the engagement ring already?? Are you already planning the marriage with him.? I know its 2 years from now but no sense planning it if you dont even have plans of marriage in your head. If your partner wants you to be happy, he will have the patience of growing into a marriage but before marriage, its more than a 2 step affair.
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« Reply #13 on: January 30, 2007, 01:26:50 PM » |
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ayt! it's the new millennium already and we're no longer what they call domestic women.. let your partner understand that you didnt study for nothing.. tell him to allow yourself to prove something (in a way that you can be proud of yourself and him to you) you're will-be-success will be his too... just ask him to understand you.. if he can't wait. then so be it. 
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« Reply #14 on: January 30, 2007, 01:32:51 PM » |
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oww... i love this topic....
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« Reply #15 on: February 02, 2007, 11:09:09 AM » |
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nice points peepz... i haven't talked to him lately coz of tight scheds.. hmm.. but thanks..things are bit clear now..
if im planning to be married @ him.. yezz i 'm. ive been thinking of that question sooo many times and it ends up with the same answer.. i want to marry him.. but i dont think getting married soon..
uhm.. can he still wait?? how can i convince him? he always have the reason in every thing that im pointing out. why do some men wants to get married before or on the age of 30?
gosh.. sorry if i got so many questions... but really get nervous when "marriage" walks in my mind......
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« Reply #16 on: February 02, 2007, 11:17:45 AM » |
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nice points peepz... i haven't talked to him lately coz of tight scheds.. hmm.. but thanks..things are bit clear now..
if im planning to be married @ him.. yezz i 'm. ive been thinking of that question sooo many times and it ends up with the same answer.. i want to marry him.. but i dont think getting married soon..
uhm.. can he still wait?? how can i convince him? he always have the reason in every thing that im pointing out. why do some men wants to get married before or on the age of 30?
gosh.. sorry if i got so many questions... but really get nervous when "marriage" walks in my mind......
Well not all guys want to get married before the age of 30. Everyone has there reasons. ANd obvious every guy has there reasons. Have you ask yourself these questions what happens if he cant wait..What happens you cant convince him to wait...? These are thw questions you will definately find out in some time future. I cant tell you the answers because you know already what can convince him and what can not.
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« Reply #17 on: February 02, 2007, 11:39:15 AM » |
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hmm... ok. im planning to talk with him bout whats bothering me.. maybe he can wait.. maybe we can meet halfway... if not.. thats a big prob.. but then its better to deal with it earlier... il just plan a long talk this weekend (no work no stress). thanks so much pogi and also naji for the advice..
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« Reply #18 on: February 02, 2007, 12:22:33 PM » |
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not a problem.. anytime...
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« Reply #19 on: February 11, 2007, 03:55:41 AM » |
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Just wanna read their story pogi thx for this post..
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« Reply #20 on: February 11, 2007, 07:26:59 PM » |
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« Reply #21 on: March 03, 2007, 09:07:46 AM » |
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okiiie How about YOU pogi the person i want to marry? any advice? 
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