Would you believe if I say it took me five years to really get over a breakup with someone I really love most? Yes, it's true! But life has to move on...right after your heart was broken. We will not grow as a person if we don't experience pain. Your failed relationship will somehow teach you on how to be strong. Just look around, appreciate the beautiful world God has given us. Refrain from listening to sad songs that could your pain, but instead try to divert your time in doing activities that you think you will excel (like sports or arts). Holding on to GOD really helps a lot. Pray that God will give you more than what you have lost. There's always a reason for everything. Goodluck!